The Coping Domain: Leisure.
By Dr. Deb Majewski, EdD, LCPC
Hi! Welcome back to The Zen Life.
In this issue we’ll discuss the second domain of wellness called the coping domain. This domain has four parts; leisure, stress-management, self-worth, and realistic beliefs. We’ll continue with stress-management which is all about managing stress effectively.
Stress management is exactly as it sounds, managing the level of stress in your life, however, is easier said than done. Stress management is synonymous with self-care as we essentially cannot have one without the other.
A small amount of stress can be helpful and serve as motivation to accomplish things. Too much stress can quickly become detrimental to functioning, causing mental and emotional problems affecting functioning. Being stressed causes the body to release a hormone called cortisol which can be hard on your body. Everyone has stress, but when it becomes chronic the cortisol levels can cause problems.
Symptoms of being overstressed can include problems concentrating, stomachache, headache, other body pains, appetite losses or gains, and trouble sleeping. Many people will attempt to cope with these symptoms with ineffective coping strategies such as smoking, drinking, or other drugs. Stress can cause or exacerbate existing mental health problems, which can ultimately affect functioning in social and work situations (World Health Organization, 2023).
There are many ways to manage stress. Most people find one or two things that work well for them so be sure to try different ways of managing your stress to allow your system to calm down. Below are some ideas for managing stress.

Hugging a furry friend can help lower your blood pressure and lower cortisol levels in your body. It can also serve as a mood booster and reduce loneliness.
Setting social media limits can and see if you feel calmer. The negativity and information overload from these sites can cause depression and anger. Take a break from social media and if you feel better, you might want to consider eliminating apps.
Get enough sleep. Sleep restores the body, regulates mood, and improves concentration. It’s much easier to manage stress when you are well rested. Consider creating a bedtime routine and avoiding social media or TV before bed.
Avoid drugs and alcohol as they can increase anxiety, depression, and other mental health issues.
Consider eating more home cooked meals. Highly processed food from drive-throughs are generally loaded with fat, salt, and additives that exacerbate stress on your body.

